Find Your True Voice

Breaking Down The Lies You Tell Yourself

Find Your True Voice

Breaking Down The Lies You Tell Yourself

Finding our true voice –  the God part of us that speaks clearly of our love of life, of passions and our hopes and desires – will automatically be awakened once we begin to have an intimate relationship with our Goddess Self.

Our authentic voice is birthed when we know the difference between our authentic voice and the voice of fear.

Our Goddess Self is revealed as we connect with God and the infinite energy of love that flows from our earthbound self to our higher soul-self.

Our souls are infinite, meaning we are both here in the physical world and in Heaven with God. There is an energy that connects our soul to both Heaven and to Earth. This is how we can aspire to live life in our authentic self, to live enlightened and to understand our life’s purpose. It’s also how our departed loved ones can support our life’s journey with messages, and the signs they use to remind us of their love.

The Goddess Self is the connection to the highest form of our soul, the part that is pure in essence, filled with Divine wisdom, knowledge and love. The Goddess Self lives in every soul, both female and male, as the Goddess is the feminine flowing energy of the Divine. The masculine energy that also flows within every soul is equally important as it balances the mental and emotional state. The masculine within us can tend to be one that is overgrown due to earthbound energies that arise from fear.

Fear comes in many forms such as anger, frustration, judgment, justification and opinions.

The voice we hear inside of ourselves has a tone to it. A tone is a sound or quality in which someone, something or even a situation speaks through any one of our senses. That tone can come from a place of love or a place of fear.

We all have an inner guidance system that will help us navigate our life – it’s call intuition. Intuition is where God speaks, guides, supports and flows love into our lives. Our intuitive voice will speak to us from a place of love.

Fear and ego voice, which, If you’ve read my books, you already know that I’ve named this voice for fear and ego Shmego. The voice of Shmego defiantly confuses us because it sounds like our own voice. The problem arises from the lies that we are told through Shmego’s tone which in turn blocks the flow of love in our life through our thoughts and in our perceptions. It’s important to understand that this Shmego guy has only one job in our lives and that is to keep us isolated from love.

The pathway to find our authentic voice, the yumminess of who we are, comes from first knowing what lies that Shmego has us living and believing in.

So here’s a truth that you need to begin to realize: You are and always have been a child of God. Your choices are your superpower and that, my friend, is a fact.

So let’s begin to break down the lies that you have been believing by answering a few questions.

– Describe the limitations you believe are holding you back.
– What are the major life events that have shaped your life?
– What is the number one pain point in your life?

Now let’s break those answers down… Question 1 – We talked about the limitations that hold us back. Limitations are birthed from a moment when we experienced fear, a time where we felt that love was absent in some way in our life. This is when our Shmego guy came in and scared us and blocked love from our view. It is also when he told us lies about who we are and what we are capable of. What lie or lies can you recognize in the limiting beliefs you have?

Question 2 – We are looking at the major life events that helped form our belief system. These events are where our trigger points were formed and where Shmego’s voice can be found. What are the events that have been replaying through your life? Can you recognize the trigger points and the lies Shmego has been feeding you throughout time?

Question 3 – We are looking at the main source of pain in our life. Pain is a calling that something has gone off balance. This could be related to our health or relationships, your  financial issues, or can stem from personal trauma. Pain has one thing that links all issues we experience together, and that one thing is fear. If pain has a story to tell, what is your pain trying to tell you? What fearful lies have you been believing about your pain? For further reading about Shmego and how you can transcend fear and return to love, take a look at my book, The Goddess You – Principles for Living in Soul Alignment, HERE

3 Steps To Letting Your Inner Light Shine

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3 Steps To Letting Your Inner Light Shine

An exciting adventure of self-discovery!

You, my darling, have an inner light.

You may be in a place right now where you find that hard to believe. But it is true – the Angels have told me so.


If your inner light is not shining as brightly as it could – as it should – then we need to break down the barriers that are blocking your radiance.

And the first step to doing that is to gain clarity on what these blocks are.

I remember when my I began hiding my gifts. Throughout my youth and young adulthood, there were many difficulties that I went through, many struggles and many times when I felt wrong for what I was seeing and feeling – and I felt alone. Fear had me believing the worst about myself, and I was engaged in an internal war against loving myself.

Now on the other side of what I call my ‘separation from love’, I have learned how to call Shmego out on the lies he once had me believe in. By leaning into Divine love, I know now that I was never alone in these struggles. I know that that was Shmego’s trick to keep me scared and away from Divine love, and instead of growing closer to God I learned to downplay my gifts and play small.

Because we lose our way and follow fear, we inadvertently allow Shmego to quiet love’s voice and end up stepping away from Divinity instead of leaning into the miracles meant for us. I also know that every single person that walks the face of the earth has their own path to walk through, struggles, difficulties, trauma, losses and grief to experience and I want you to know that you are not alone.

The truth is that our inner light shines when love is present within our everyday. Our inner light is our truth, the core of who we are our Goddess soul-self.

Leaning into love can feel uncomfortable at first.

We must learn new ways of engaging our thoughts, of changing our reactions, of letting go and surrendering the control we think we have. When we lean into love, our intuition opens allowing Divinity to guide us through an invisible energetic connection. Our inner light blossoms and grows as we engage new practices of releasing old patterns and dwelling in a love that was meant for us.



The 3 steps to letting your inner light shine
Getting to know our soul-self is how our inner light will shine radiantly. The formula for our inner light to shine is a self-discovery adventure.

Step 1 Become your own best friend. Just as with any new relationship you begin, you will have to get to know everything about yourself. You will find the more you understand about yourself, the clearer your intuition will become.

Step 2 Believe that love supports you. Faith is a superpower that will always support you. Your faith is your strongest asset – and when you pour your attention into it, it will grow and strengthen. The stronger your faith, the more you will shine your inner light!

Step 3

Leverage your weakness. Turn the things that you feel are your weaknesses around into your strengths by seeing them as a call for love. For instance, say you are a procrastinator: look at the real reason why you put things off and then welcome in time for rest and rejuvenation. By adding in time to meditate and clear your head you are restoring your energy and, in return, your mood will uplift, and you will be more likely to accomplish the tasks at hand.

I would love to hear the story of your self-discovery adventure and how you are letting your inner light shine! Share it with me over in my

Angels Don’t Lie Facebook group!

3 Things The Dead Guy Taught Me…

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3 Things The Dead Guy Taught Me…

With love all things are possible!

We share our happy times and best moments on social media. We see each other through a filtered lens of just the chosen snapshots we want others to see of our life.

Why is this? It’s because sharing the side of our life that is our actual reality is hard and requires us to be vulnerable. Not many of us feel safe enough to let others see the not so great, embarrassing sides of ourselves.

Hey look, there are some things that I found really hard to share with you – because I was afraid of being judged. My fear of what you would think was holding me in a yucky place and the Angels said I was actually judging others by believing this fearful lie.

I’ve learned so much about who I am by sharing my gift with you and spending time conversing with Heavenly beings that it’s helped me to stop worrying about what others will think about my life. You have taught me through your willingness to hear from you loved ones in Heaven, your vulnerability of having parts of your life exposed that aren’t the prettiest and for your bravery in taking the time to do your “you work” and follow Spirit’s guidance in healing all the crappy stuff that blocks your joy. Through your willingness to connect with your loved ones from Heaven, the vulnerability you have during those readings and the bravery you have in putting in the work to heal and find peace makes me brave in return allowing me to have the Spirit messages be heard. Together we hear from the departed that love is our only pathway to joy and happiness.

Let me tell you this, channeling a soul who offers their loved one a clear apology or heartfelt forgiveness is truly a tear-worthy heart opening experience!


 Here are the 3 things a dead guy taught me…
At a recent group reading, we all got some great advice from this dead guy I channeled for the women hosting the party. He said to his loved one, “Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable, share your love freely with others, and stop taking their words and actions on or into your thoughts and feelings.” He stated, “They don’t belong to you!”

I loved this message so much and for so many reasons.

1.I loved the dead guy’s message because I literally feel everything and so many of you do as well. It’s honestly the most uncomfortable thing I have to live with and the most challenging part of my life to manage. My knowing and feeling are also the biggest blessings – go figure!

The knowing is just one of the ways I connect with Spirit. I can feel within my body the signs they impress me with. For instance, if someone passed of a heart issue, I will experience pressure in my chest and have a hard time breathing. I will also experience similar for the living as well, and it’s not all happy – I experience people’s shitty moods, thoughts and feelings. I literally know when people are nay-saying, backstabbing and gossip guppies because I feel it within my body, and my knowing backs up the feeling.

Thankfully I’ve learned how to keep my energy in check, it has changed my life, and that is why I am so passionate about sharing with you how you can balance your energy! The dead guy’s message reminded us all that we can remove ourselves from feeling yucky and unsure and instead rejoice in our unique  gifts and share God’s love with others!

2. I loved the dead guy’s message because by nature I can be defensive. Yup, I sometime can be  a tad stubborn at times! I’ve worked with the Angels over the years to lessen my reactions and the time in which I respond to others and situations. Yet, I still find myself being challenged  and jump into a defensive role. His message reminded me that I also have learned an amazing value for my life and my soul in being able to apologize and forgive. You see, these are the two hardest things to do in life, to say we are sorry and to forgive. The dead guy’s message helped the group to remember that these actions are superpowers that we all have and can change the course of our lives for the better!

3.I loved the dead guy’s message because I’ve recently been through an emotional challenge that led me to question why people hurt each other. When it comes down to it, every soul I’ve channeled has only love to share. They tell me that in Heaven there is only love, there are no restrictions of time, there is no judgment, shame or anger. They say there are no grudges or sorrows—there is only LOVE.

Love will heal us on levels we are sometimes unable to see. Love is the pathway to our joy. Without love, we have pain and unhappiness. The dead guy’s message captured the energy of  faith and in doing so renewed the groups hope that sometimes things are going to change, people are going to walk away, but Love will always support us.


What you can take away from the dead guy’s messages:

  1. Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable.
  2. Share your love freely with others.

3. Stop taking others’ words and actions on or into your thoughts and feelings.

The truth that came forth from this dead man’s words are healing tones that each of us can all take away and use in our own life—that with love all things are possible.