There are complicated emotions and feelings that arise from the loss of a loved one, especially when one is grieving the loss of a loved one who has caused pain and suffering to you and others during that soul’s life.
Grieving the toxic relationship, one that has left the scars of emotional and or physical wounds brings you down the path of engaging in the memories and events. The abusive relationship stares directly at you as you try to sift through the memories and unfinished business that aid your inner turmoil and end up fueling Shmego’s fearful tone.
The loss relationship deepens the internal conflict of ones private pain carried within the body, which challenges the natural course of grief from flowing. This is where the block is becomes the wall keeping you hostage in fears prison.
Grief as you may know is also known as bereavement. Bereavement is the state of a responsive being caused by a loss or a death.
Just a little side note that not all grief is caused from a physical death. Grief is a multi-layered response to loss and comprise physical, emotional and energetic energy.
Grief can be felt and experienced within all the human senses. This is why grief is complicated and unique to each soul.
Spirit offers messages and insights about abusive relationships and how it pertains to grief.
When a person is subjected to abuse, the pain of that relationship is centered around the actions of the abuser.
The victim is then predisposed to fear not only from within but also the energetic fear from their abuser. Separating from abusers fear is challenging to say the least.
Spirit says in order for healing to occur one must be accountable for their actions, reactions and the energy they omit.
To heal grief of any kind especially if you are grieving due to a trauma you must first heal your relationship with your Goddess Soul-Self.
Within The Goddess You twelve principles you will find your pathway to healing what ails you.
Surrender your past over to the Divine, Quiet the tones and memories that hold you in the pain.
Self love will be your pathway to hearing the Divine speak to you.
Forgiveness frees the energetic connection to the abuser.
Taking control of your actions and reactions by inviting love in and calming the feelings of isolation, anger, loneliness, sadness, grief.
Clearing your energy of the old while being in the moment of now.
Releasing the chains to past pains that are the blocks.
Letting go of the stories causing you to stay in the grief like its ground hog day over and over again.
Paying attention to your physical body the energy within your being.
Knowing what serves your well being and what doesn’t serve you.
Be Calm.
Picking yourself up when you crash and not kicking your self when you’re down.
Aligning to your mind, body and spirit.
Listening to your inner intuitive voice.
Today we breached a topic that is not easily discussed. I know first hand of the pain one can carry around from not healing ones grief. I have seen this type of grief cause by physical and mental aliments, illness and even death.
When I ask the Angels about why this happens in life, and why souls will suffer at the hands of another the answer I receive is not easily understood by many but truly the answer to heal ones life. The Angels say repair the relationship with God. The separation from soul to the Divine is where the pain keeps us isolated and in fear. Inviting Divine love is our free will, and is why we are here, To remember God.
Don’t go it alone!
Blessings
xx Jeanne