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When To Walk Away From A Relationship

 

We are meant to have all types of relationships in this lifetime. The truth is everyone wants to be loved and valued. 

 

Our path is unique to us. We have curves, potholes and even detours that we take while on our life path. 

 

All souls have their own journey to go through in this life. The most rewarding energy we can experience is claiming our right to be here. You are meant to be here in this life, to have your experiences and transcend your pain. 

 

The Angels have taught that we are all on the same playing field, meaning with all have our own pains, sufferings and life lessons to learn. 

 

When we are in a toxic relationship we may find ourselves caught up in a lower energy vibe. 

 

All souls have a path to walk in this life. The most rewarding energy we can experience is claiming our right to be here. You are meant to be here in this life. 

 

The Angels have taught that we are all on the same playing field, meaning with all have our own pains, sufferings and life lessons to learn. 

 

When we are in a toxic relationship we may find ourselves caught up in a lower energy vibe. 

 

We have thoughts that lead us to experiencing feelings of sadness, anger and resentment. From there we form opinions and our outwardly actions are shaped from these lower vibes.

 

And, while it sounds easy to say we aren’t judging, shaming or blaming the experience. When we dive in deep doing our “you work” and really take a heartfelt look at those feelings without judging, then write them down in our journal, like magic the truth takes shape. Seeing the truth is freeing and gives us the opportunity to re-shape our thoughts and clean up our side of the relationship.

 

If the first thing we could do when we experienced pain was to open our heart to compassion and surrender the feelings and emotions without following them back in time, as if the experience was a lifetime movie on re-run, your healing would come forward with ease.

 

The Angels say though we may not believe we are safe to surrender to love this deeply, we are meant to have these challenges to teach us that we are indeed strong enough to look our pain in the eye and learn valuable life lessons. 

 

When we look at our side of the relationship, and own our part, that is when the pain we are carrying is healed.

 

Cleaning up your side of the relationship how to’s:

 

We all have our own life path to walk;use these prompts to help you uncover what your blocks are.

 

Think of one relationship that you would like to heal.

 

Write a list of the feelings you are experiencing about that relationship.

 

Next to each feeling you wrote down journal  if this feeling is connected to the person or event, if you are unsure just leave it blank for now.

 

Look over the feelings list one item at a time. While closing your eyes think of one feeling at a time, place  one hand on your belly the other over your heart and say the feeling out loud. Notice where in your body this feeling is located.

 

Write down your findings for each of feelings that you have on your list.

 

Are the feelings associated with the relationship you listed above or from a previous relationship or event.

 

Emotions are past pains that are stored within our body. Feelings trigger these emotions to rise. We can confuse old emotional pain with new experiences because the feelings we are experiencing are familiar to the ones we had during a previous pain.

 

Once you can determine if the feelings you have are connected to emotions within your body from that person or if they are associated with a past event you can take the next steps.

 

Write down a love action you can take to shift the energy of that block. 

 

For instance: 

Forgiveness of self or the other.

Apologize for a wrong-doing.

Surrender a fear to God.

Pray for release.

Let go of the past stories. 

Live in the present moment.

 

Now you have your first step along with the tools you need to clean up your side of the relationship. Leave me a comment below on how you used my method to heal your relationships! 

 

Blessings

xx Jeanne

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  • Donna Milner
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    Hi Jeanne,
    Yes I can do these steps to heal my blocks toward my ex, because I understand that most of my emotions come from my past and relationship with my parents. And as I do this for myself in the present, my minds flys ahead to the biggest question as to how this can help heal the distance between me and my ex when he doesn’t (or won’t) be open enough to receive me as I am. That’s the worst part for me! Having to release him without having him in my life

    • Jeanne Street
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      Donna,
      This is a great question. You start with you. By looking within and honoring your personal “you work” you will grow and evolve without fear. In my book The Goddess You I share the 12 principles to live in personal alignment.

      When we take our energy off of fixing or changing a situation or person, and put into to self love the problems we have start to dissipate. Another soul can’t receive you at the level you are desiring as you are not receiving yourself on that level yet, self love is how you can start to let go of what you feel you need from him. I do hope this helps! Blessings and continued prayers xx Jeanne

  • Adrienne Jakljevic Battochio
    Reply

    All my feelings are connected to my husband
    Looking at these feelings I don’t feel so weak because I know that God is by my side again
    And that’s a good feeling
    I’m still living in great toxicity but starting to separate myself and talk myself in not letting the energy lower my vibrations

    • Jeanne Street
      Reply

      Adrienne, Show up everyday in this beautiful energy! Love will hold you as you release the energy that is no longer serving you!
      xx Jeanne

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